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May 16Liked by Raechel Anne Jolie

“Blessed are the sharers of experience; blessed are the battle-scarred posters of the health messageboards who give us care.”

And blessed are you, Raechel, for using your painful experience to validate and educate us.

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🥹🙏🏻

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So grateful to have read this — thank you for sharing it. Sending love and hope for time to rest and continue healing!

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Thank you so much!

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I'm so happy you're on the other side of this (at least, on the other side of the surgery--obviously the medical trauma will be there for a while). Thank you for writing this. I also have a fibroid and have been told next to nothing about what to do. Granted, I don't have symptoms like you did (yet). I truly hate how our "health care" doesn't give a shit about trying to prevent things. Ugh. Anyways, thank you again for writing this! Sending you healing vibes.

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Thank you friend, please count me as a resource if new issues emerge with yours 🙏🏻

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May 16Liked by Raechel Anne Jolie

thank you for writing such difficult things with power and clarity and as always your attention to the relationship between the personal and political, individual and systemic. i wish you deep recovery.

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Thank you dear one 💗🙏🏻

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May 16Liked by Raechel Anne Jolie

Oof, Raechel -- this is such a wrenchingly detailed account of all the fuckery we go through to get BASIC MEDICAL CARE. I'm really glad you're (hopefully) on the mend. Get that rest!

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Seriously. From small things to large things it’s always fuckery! Thanks for the well wishes!!!

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May 16Liked by Raechel Anne Jolie

Sending you so much love. Grateful that you and Peter have each other.

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I am too💗💗

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May 16Liked by Raechel Anne Jolie

Sending you love and healing vibes 💕 It can be so hard to push through medical/institutional trauma we may carry to advocate for our needs and get the help we need and I’m proud of you for doing it! I swear it’s always a struggle.

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They count on people getting too exhausted/frustrated to continue. 💔 thank you for the vibes!!

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May 16Liked by Raechel Anne Jolie

Thank you so much for sharing this experience. Sending you so much radical rest and love and healing!

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Thank you dear one!

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May 18Liked by Raechel Anne Jolie

Thank you for sharing Raechel. Kimberly Nicole Foster shared about her recent myomectomy (here on Substack, highly recommend). It is comforting to hear people’s experiences as we are often not fully informed by doctors, especially of the emotional impacts ❤️

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Thank you so much and I totally agree. I’ll check out Kimberly’s newsletter! 🙏🏻

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